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Lalahooey
Invisible Ink
confessions from a rustic feminist
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La Femme Accroupie
I am the Mother of a teenage girl. It’s a hard job. Hard like mining for rocks, hard. I wasn’t always that. Once upon a time, I was the...

Lalahooey
Mar 20, 20229 min read


Billie Don't Be a Hero
First he showed me how to do it. He sat down with the animal in his lap. “Hold his legs firm, up and behind his ears, pinned together in...

Lalahooey
Mar 12, 202212 min read


I don't need to be forgiven
He gave me a ride to the airport which, I’m sure, in his mind was absolution. Water beaded out of my skin and out of my eyes and tiny...

Lalahooey
Mar 1, 202210 min read


The Empire Strikes Back
Kiki noticed it first. When the tv was on you couldn’t hear it, but after everyone else was in bed, there it was, like an amber alert....

Lalahooey
Feb 12, 20227 min read


Eminence Front
I pulled back the door and got a splinter in my finger, the wagging one. The door to this particular stall of the barn was steaming from...

Lalahooey
Feb 11, 20228 min read


Stop me if you think that you've heard this one before.
Everything seems easier when you look at it from the opposite side. I may be a cis-female but my whole life I've had a hard time being a...

Lalahooey
Feb 5, 202211 min read


Cottage Industries
I learned that the average age of that great American myth, the American family farmer, has bumped up to 63 this year. Still pretty...

Lalahooey
Jan 31, 20229 min read


Salted Bomb
I worry about nothing a lot. I know my daughter likes to worry and to nothing too but I don’t want her to know we share that. I don’t...

Lalahooey
Jan 29, 20229 min read


Regime Change Starts at Home
The thing is dear Millennials, I do believe that you got somethings right. Take, for example, the shared invisible labor thing at home....

Lalahooey
Jan 18, 20228 min read


Girl you know it's true
She was intent on staying passive, pretty sure she should not struggle against the grip that held her in place before the officiant. Her...

Lalahooey
Jan 13, 20229 min read


But, this one is see-through
In the food business, traceability is the way of the future. Know where your food comes from, follow it back through the supply chain all...

Lalahooey
Jan 5, 20227 min read


Hard conversations start with...
a sentence. ~ Thank you Selena for this and other memorable 'forgettable' moments. Remember the accidental dinner party? I do. The kind...

Lalahooey
Jan 4, 20224 min read


Invisible Ink and other recipes for faith seeking feminists
The art of making a good pie is the crust. I learned this from two sources, the 4-H county fair rulebook and Martha Stewart. Maintaining...

Lalahooey
Jan 1, 202211 min read
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